Plan A Romantic Getaway

A woman gave her husband a note that would read as he left the office one day.  He is going to open the glove compartment of your car and read the instructions: "Take your office parking lot and go three miles south, turn left Go 4.3 miles Turn right ......" and so on.

Her husband was overjoyed when he reached his destination mystery. The directions led him to an hotel where his wife had planned a romantic getaway.

If you wait for a convenient time to break away with your partner, that time may never come. Why not arranged your schedule to include a mini-outing this month?

"You will never find time for anything, If you want time, you must make it."

 Romance is the flame that keeps marriage exciting. :)

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Choose Your Spouse as your Best Friend

They said "love starts from a beautiful friendship" or "friends can be more than friends!" (this is only applicable for opposite sex best friends.)

An advice column in a popular women's magazine recently published a general inquiry.  A bride to ask her best friend, a man to be her "maid" of honor at her wedding. I wanted to know the proper term for a man serving in this capacity. 
A better question for this woman could have been, what hope is my marriage to survive if the man I marry is not my best friend?

Your marriage should encapsulate the ultimate of every earthly relationship. Your partner should be your best friend, his most trusted confidant, the first and last in their turn to when you need comfort, advice and love.    
Is your spouse your best friend? If not, start working on that today.

Friendship is the foundation of every good marriage.

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Deal with Your Emotional Baggage

All human beings are painful experiences that have an impact on them at some level. Can affect how decisions and relate to others, including our partners. If you experience feelings of failure, guilt, shame or anger as a result of past experiences, don't ignore them.  Is likely to intensify and will definitely affect your marriage.

It will take some courage, but if you want to be a more secure, loving person and spouse, it's vital that you work to heal broken places in your heart.  Take a look at yourself honestly.  Be willing to talk to God, his close friends, your partner, or even a professional counselor. The healthier, you are emotionally, the healthier that your marriage will be.

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NEW LOOK! MORE HEARTS! ♥

Since my bloggers friends changed or upgrade the new look of their blog. I decided to change mine too. =) Since I am blogging about relationship (that is not applicable to myself JK!), I choose the template, with hearts and I still keeping the background from shabbyblogs.com that is full of hearts. Love is in the air, Holiday season is coming. Will post entry about that love Christmas.

Thank you for following me guys, hope there's more bloggers out there to follow so I could follow you back and be friends! =)


Alright, I have to go... Hope you like my new theme (that its still color pink!) and Have a lovely day! ♥ 

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PAINFUL THINGS IN (LOVE) LIFE ♥

There are painful things when it comes to falling in love. Specially when you and your partner "just break up" status of relationship. Sometimes, if we already moved on from someone to the past and we think of those memories, it makes us feel the pain.

Here are some painful things:

• Trying to hide what you really feel.
This might be the hardest thing to do in your part but to make people happy for your moving on you have to show that you are okay but deep inside you are not.

• Reminiscing the good times.
That's the only thing that you can do. Good memories with your past lover may make you smile.

• Bringing back the feeling you've learned to forget.
When we think of it, "I got over him/her" and promised yourself to forget everything including the feelings for that person. So when you will try to bring back the feeling you have to reminisce the good times.

• Having a commitment with someone you know that would not last.
This is what you called gamble. When you will love someone you have to take a risk. Because you will never know what will happens next.

• Taking risk to fall in love "again"
Like what I've mentioned above, loving someone is a gamble. You know everything would not last except both of you decided to tie a knot.

• Right love at the wrong time.
Simple explanation with this is that two persons love each other but the problem is he have her and she have him. OUCH!

• Loving someone who loves another.
All I can say is: It's time to face the truth, he/she will never be with you. Don't let one-sided love invades you.

• Accepting that it was never meant to me.
Aawww... I hate this feeling. This is connected to what I've mention above.

• What Ifs.
All you can do is to have "day dreaming" about that person. Hoping for nothing? (someone like that) FML!

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