Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Why We Can't Move On?

Why do we keep on holding onto the things that should be free?
I don't know how to start this; it is because I hate this question. Not because I'm still attached to someone or things that I can't let go, it is just, someone is bothering me and the reason is that person is still trap in the past and can't move on. “OMG, part of the lyrics of
the song Way Back into Love”

Letting Go

I know I know... We all know that it's hard to let go for someone especially that you still love with that person. We know that they're part of our life and it will never erase except if you will have amnesia. Sometimes, we are doing this for good or we have reasons to leave that person. Whatever it is... This “moving on” thing is still part of letting go. It is obvious that if you let that go of that person, you'll have to move on right? However how about that you will tell to that person that you'll get over him or her or you had moved on but the truth is not?! Well, pretending to be okay that nothing happened is sometimes good because your showing to that person that you can do it, but deep inside... It's really painful in your part.


Memorable memories with your special someone is one of the treasure stuff that you can keep forever. Reminiscing the past is not bad since you don't always uttered the name of that person to your present partner and telling stories more about your past. That's awkward and unfair for the part of your current partner. It is because aside from telling him or her stories before, she's or he also thinks that she or he is being co
mpared. That's awful!

Communication After Break-Up
This is the part I hate most. I will ask you this query: do you still have communication with your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend? Well, for me, it's okay to have communication with someone from your past. However always sending message via e-mail and catch him or her to be online on chat or even call that person means it’s either you're still in love with that person and you're still not moving on with your life or you want to know how's your ex doing in his or her life right now with no malice. Mostly, girls can't easily move on from their past especially that person did many things that she couldn't forget. There might be stuff that still kept in the box that reminds of that person. Well, I
have this friend of mine, someone from the past of her boyfriend sending him text messages, e-mail messages, or even calling him. Her boyfriend told her that evens he will just ignore her messages or calls that girl will still find a way just to keep their communication. That girl can't resist. She can't let go of that guy even though she already have someone with her right now. I don't understand why she can't let go of that person. Well, each one of us has reasons to keep that person in our life.

Do you believe in this quote? “If the two past lovers remain friends, it's either they are still in love... Or they never were.”


Mostly we intend to keep that stuff that are not worth keeping for, that is why we are bitter and we can't let go also we can't m
ove on. Now days, most of the souvenir that we have someone are photos with you together. Those were the days that you're happy together. You will just keep it in a photo album or burn it. However you know what? Its better that you will keep it than to burn it or throw it because, if you will grow old, you can still remember the person that you loved once.

Listen to Music

If you are heart broken, you have a song dedicated to yourself that keeps playing in your head. That song that has meaning about “getting over” or “moving on” is good to play every time you remember that person. Coz every time you will play it, you will keep in your mind that you really had moved on. Songs of getting over are mostly played in the radios' like “Tattoo” by Jordin Sparks, “Over You” by Daughtry, “Seven Days of Lonely” by iNine, “Over It” by Katherine McPhee and etc.

1 show their love comments:

Ellen said...

Nice post! I love this! ♥

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