Closer I Get to You

Rain outside my window pouring down. I am hearing thunder that makes me scared of. I get my guitar and play my favorite love songs, so I could think of you. <3

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One of the Best Feeling

Have you experienced the quote above? Because I am. Yes! It was amazing that you couldn't speak and you look silly that you can't help but smile. That feeling that you wanted to look at him but when you turn your head on that person, he or she is already staring. Woot!

By the way, I am now on twitter guys! I know, it's been so many years before I sign up for this. Now that you can easily get in touch with me. Follow me: @akimknow and I'll definitely follow you too. <3

Have a lovely day!

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Fight Less Listen More

Hello! I would like to say that, I am still alive and trying to fight the feeling of being busy and not being updated on this blog. That makes me guilty. I have received comments, messages, emails to update my page and this means, I listen more, I will update my blog! :D  Oh! Geezzz! Forgive me for not updating this page. I have posts that you will read in coming few weeks. :)

Issues that affects marriage, relationship and family. Sounds interesting, right? You have to look forward for that. :) Then again, thank you for visiting my blog. Have a great day everyone! :)

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Live-In Relationship Vs Marriage Relationship

A very challenging topic and sensitive issue to write about. Oohhh gawd, please don’t hate me if you don’t like my (or our) point of views. To help me with this, I asked my two friends: one is in a live-in relationship and the other one who is married.

I asked what are the advantages and disadvantages of the two.

First off.

Live-In Relationship:

Many young couple are now in live-in relationship than married. Although marriage advocates have long frowned on the concept of living in relationships, these relationships are quickly becoming a reality in the society we live today.

Advantages of Live-In Relationship:

• You can be with each other everyday.

• You can get support especially when you are miles away from your family.

• You will not feel alone because she/he always with you.

• You have someone who cares, and vice versa.

• You have a reason to cook food.

• You have someone to share your sadness and happiness.

• Love is a great feeling and you have someone with whom, you can share.

Live in relationships or living arrangements is seen as the easiest route to take. Most people want to avoid a lifetime commitment to one person, and to accept the fact that person and their needs change over time. In addition, living in relationships do not require that a person is obliged to another person and is free to live their lives without feeling any sense of responsibility. This arrangement seems very attractive for people who are either afraid to marry or who do not believe in the concept of marriage.

Disadvantages of Live-In Relationship:

• You have to compromise on everything you do.

• You will have a lot of homework to do, but ends doing none of that.

• Your partner knows you have a class or work, but somehow the phone rings during class or work or worst, if you have meetings.

• When you call back after the class and heard a response from the oil, "Why not pick up the phone" I have been calling thousands of times! " which is definitely sick.

• You may not have time for yourself, the effect of this point: “that you are never alone” - now think how good he is wherever he or she will be with you.

• You will get yelled every time you do something that the other does not like.

•  You do not have privacy, or should I say have a shared life.

• You should do a lot of promise, so many that it would eventually even be able to maintain it.

• There will always a dissatisfaction in everything you do.

• You cannot eat much because he / she thinks are becoming fat and cannot eat less because he / she thinks your being too conscious of their weight (Yes, of course, particularly true for girls.)

• Sacrificing your dreams. You will get bothered by him or her even if you choose not to pursue what you like.

• You will be treated as private property (not always, but what I've seen so far was all the same.)

• Before you will make a decision, you have to consult him or her because, if not, there will be a big argue between the two of you and that’s not a surprised.

Marriage Relationship

Many people believe that marriage is a union ordained by God and it is also a wonderful union of two people in love. However like every great thing in life, marriage has its advantages and disadvantages.

Advantages of Marriage:

• Your relationship has a blessed from God for he established marriage and increase spiritual strength.

• The best place, health wise, to have wonderful free and guiltless sex.

• You have security in terms of raising children. (Food, Education, Responsibility and Rights)

• Always having that person beside you all the time.

• You get unconditional love.

• Stable companionship which leads to better physical and emotional.

Disadvantages of Marriage:

• Usually spouses tend to change after getting married.

• Everything you own such as property and money is her or his own now.

• Not a good relationship with the in-laws.

• If both busy with work, there will be not enough communication to solve any marriage issues.

• If you can’t give what your spouse wants, cheating and lying can be done.

• You have to give up so much of your freedom to stay married.

Love is a beautiful thing though there are many restrictions. There are maybe advantages and disadvantages when it comes to a relationship but still we can’t escape to love someone and to be loved by someone.

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Expectations and Reality

Have you ever expect something that you are imagining to happen but in reality its NOT going to happen? HAHA! Like for instance these: EXPECTATIONS and REALITY!

Are men like that? How about that? Enough to explain.
I just want to live, laugh and love ...HAHA! 

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Real Men Wear Pink?

I don't think this statement: Real Men wear Pink or Tough guy wear pink!

This statement is not applicable anymore. Just like before: I like handsome guy. But now: Never mind if he is handsome, what matters is HE IS A REAL GUY! Hahaha! If you know what I mean. :) 

This statement is cool: REAL MEN TREAT GIRLS RIGHT. 

Hmm.. how about the part of the guy? If the guy is treating the girl right but the problem is not him but the other party? O___o sounds complicated. Expectations and reality coordinates well. Will gonna make a post about that later on. :) 

Have a great day lovely people! :) 

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Say Yes More Often

I remember the movie Yes Man by Jim Carrey, saying "yes" may open an opportunity and changes to your life. That was a very good movie. :) Alright, enough so here's my post today for you people. ♥

♥~♥~♥

Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.

Complacency is detrimental to life and marriage, but with each passing year comes an ever - increasing opportunity to climb into a rut. We nestle ourselves into a comfortable routine and refuse to budge without putting up a fight. 

Refuse to trudge methodically through another day with nothing of note to mark the passing of time. Set those fuddy duddy ways aside and throw caution to the wind. Choose something daring for the two of you. Then talk it up to your spouse until they catch the vision. Behave unpredictably. Above all else, resist the temptation to conform to the mundane. Love one another :)  

Say yes to life and a more exciting marriage.

Seize the Day!

Just say YES!

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After the Break Up

What will you do if you will received a message (text, private message or an email?) from the person you broke up with? 

On the other hand, let's say you broke up one month ago? and you are not doing well, and you want to ask how about her or him? Can you dare yourself to send the "how are you?" message with "I miss you a lot"? 

Oh no! Whatever you received a message or sends someone a message the important is that the person still value whatever you guys had before and starting all over again as friends is not bad. 

Still up to you if you will reply to the message because you are curious what's he or she's up to.

If you will going to ask me, I will reply to the message, will just gonna answer what is being asked (sounds bitter?) but the important is I replied. Right? Spread the love to everyone. :)

About sending a message to someone, its harmless so, I will send a message and its up to that person if he will reply. Right? 

How about you? :)

Have a great day!

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Love is Never Ugly

Love is never ugly. TRUE. Because even if we hate someone because we are mad or we just had an arguement with that someone. We can say "I hate you!" but we never really meant it 101% because If you really love the person, you will still forgive the person. We say things that we didn't mean because we were just mad. You will feel this kind of feeling when you truly love the person. Because the thing is that you really, really, hate that person but you can't never say that you don't love the person. Just live life to the fullest!

Have a great day! ♥

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Flying

Funny how falling feels like flying for a little while. Falling in love for the first time?
And it's hurt so much when you are heart broken because you fall so hard from flying for a while. 

How are you? What is your plan this weekend? 

Have a great day!

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Just A Kiss

I am so inlove with this song right now and this is my LSS! Can't help but to memorize this song and to sing like her haha!

Sorry for this short post. I am busy doing "other" things right now. Thank you people for visiting always on my page :) Hope you will leave some comments or follow my page because I do follow back. :) Feel free to post some love love comments...

Have a good day! Kisses! :) 

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Plan For Time Apart

The best thinking has been done in solitude. The worst has been done in turmoil.

Regardless of the close relationship you share with your mate, there are times when you both need time alone. Human beings need personal space from time to time in order to grow and thrive. Solitude is necessary to secure peace of mind.

Set aside some time each week to process deep thoughts and to let your mind and imagination soar. Look at it as a private retreat to refresh your patched soul. If all else fails, lock yourself in the bathroom and soak in the tub for a while. Reconnect with your inner self. Urge your spouse to do the same. Those brief, quiet moments will do you both a world of good. 

RETREAT. REFRESH. REFUEL.

Have a lovely day everyone! ♥

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Song - Everything

The lyrics is so refreshing. This song is goes out to the girl who just ran away and he want to find the girl where. So sweet, making a song, created a music video and posted this on you tube. But in the end of the video is kinda "spoiler" hahaha! Watch it and you'll know why. Don't forget, to do it as a first option. :) Everything is on web now. ;) We have to live, laugh and love!

Have a great day! :) ♥

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We Look For Love

Hello people! :) It's been a while since my last post about relationship. Well, as a blogger I also have other things to do in my life. :) I also miss my page. :) Hope you enjoy my posts recently as part of other issues in life. :) And I hope you enjoy the gif above, I found this on my favorite website. I love the message its like a short film. :) 

Love lots! :)

Kim ♥

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The Vow Trailer

The movie that I look forward to next year. Love is a form of amnesia because girl can forget there are millions of guys out there. But this one is not just an "amnesia" this is the between two newly wed couple that had an accident and the girl have an amnesia and doesn't remember anything about them two. Awww... from the director of the Notebook. Here comes the another heart breaking movie that I'm looking forward to watch next year, February 2012.

Alright, because the story is interesting I want to know what the guy did to win her back again. Channing Tatum is hot and its already given :) ayeee! I love to see him on screen since he started Step Up movies. :)

Enjoy the trailer! :) Awww ♥♥♥

Have a lovely day everyone!

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What Hurts Most

When breaking up and see him again with someone... all you can do is to smile and laugh a little with a little pinch of pain in your heart. Ouch...

This song is perfect for that kind of difficult situation. So yeah... maybe this could be your LSS. Perfect.

Have a lovely day everyone! :) 

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When Breaking Up

Why is it people didn't realized the worth of a person that loved them so much until it's gone? Why is it we have to lose someone we love so much before we realized that they are special to us? I guess, because we didn't think we would ever lose it. Like what's on the photo above is soooo true. 

How are you people? Hope you're all doing good. :) Happy Weekend. ♥

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The Sweetest Marriage Proposal

Awww.. the sweetest ever!

Kilig much! :) <3

Have a Lovely Day!

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You Don't Think of Me

Just found this while browsing my favorite site. Read... :)

I know you don't think of me.
And you certainly would never picture us together, but probably peanut butter was just peanut butter before someone ever thought of pairing it up with jelly.
And there was salt, but it started to taste better when there was pepper. And what's the point of butter without bread? Anyway, by myself. I'm nothing special.
But with you, I think I could be and that's we call love :)

Cutteee... :) I find this sweet and cute. How about you? :)

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Break Up Lines and What It Means

Famous Break up lines can't help but give them a (true) meaning. :\

Have a great day! 

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