Friday, December 30, 2011

Live-In Relationship Vs Marriage Relationship

A very challenging topic and sensitive issue to write about. Oohhh gawd, please don’t hate me if you don’t like my (or our) point of views. To help me with this, I asked my two friends: one is in a live-in relationship and the other one who is married.

I asked what are the advantages and disadvantages of the two.

First off.

Live-In Relationship:

Many young couple are now in live-in relationship than married. Although marriage advocates have long frowned on the concept of living in relationships, these relationships are quickly becoming a reality in the society we live today.

Advantages of Live-In Relationship:

• You can be with each other everyday.

• You can get support especially when you are miles away from your family.

• You will not feel alone because she/he always with you.

• You have someone who cares, and vice versa.

• You have a reason to cook food.

• You have someone to share your sadness and happiness.

• Love is a great feeling and you have someone with whom, you can share.

Live in relationships or living arrangements is seen as the easiest route to take. Most people want to avoid a lifetime commitment to one person, and to accept the fact that person and their needs change over time. In addition, living in relationships do not require that a person is obliged to another person and is free to live their lives without feeling any sense of responsibility. This arrangement seems very attractive for people who are either afraid to marry or who do not believe in the concept of marriage.

Disadvantages of Live-In Relationship:

• You have to compromise on everything you do.

• You will have a lot of homework to do, but ends doing none of that.

• Your partner knows you have a class or work, but somehow the phone rings during class or work or worst, if you have meetings.

• When you call back after the class and heard a response from the oil, "Why not pick up the phone" I have been calling thousands of times! " which is definitely sick.

• You may not have time for yourself, the effect of this point: “that you are never alone” - now think how good he is wherever he or she will be with you.

• You will get yelled every time you do something that the other does not like.

•  You do not have privacy, or should I say have a shared life.

• You should do a lot of promise, so many that it would eventually even be able to maintain it.

• There will always a dissatisfaction in everything you do.

• You cannot eat much because he / she thinks are becoming fat and cannot eat less because he / she thinks your being too conscious of their weight (Yes, of course, particularly true for girls.)

• Sacrificing your dreams. You will get bothered by him or her even if you choose not to pursue what you like.

• You will be treated as private property (not always, but what I've seen so far was all the same.)

• Before you will make a decision, you have to consult him or her because, if not, there will be a big argue between the two of you and that’s not a surprised.

Marriage Relationship

Many people believe that marriage is a union ordained by God and it is also a wonderful union of two people in love. However like every great thing in life, marriage has its advantages and disadvantages.

Advantages of Marriage:

• Your relationship has a blessed from God for he established marriage and increase spiritual strength.

• The best place, health wise, to have wonderful free and guiltless sex.

• You have security in terms of raising children. (Food, Education, Responsibility and Rights)

• Always having that person beside you all the time.

• You get unconditional love.

• Stable companionship which leads to better physical and emotional.

Disadvantages of Marriage:

• Usually spouses tend to change after getting married.

• Everything you own such as property and money is her or his own now.

• Not a good relationship with the in-laws.

• If both busy with work, there will be not enough communication to solve any marriage issues.

• If you can’t give what your spouse wants, cheating and lying can be done.

• You have to give up so much of your freedom to stay married.

Love is a beautiful thing though there are many restrictions. There are maybe advantages and disadvantages when it comes to a relationship but still we can’t escape to love someone and to be loved by someone.

Thursday, July 21, 2011

Expectations and Reality

Have you ever expect something that you are imagining to happen but in reality its NOT going to happen? HAHA! Like for instance these: EXPECTATIONS and REALITY!

Are men like that? How about that? Enough to explain.
I just want to live, laugh and love ...HAHA! 

Sunday, July 17, 2011

Real Men Wear Pink?

I don't think this statement: Real Men wear Pink or Tough guy wear pink!
This statement is not applicable anymore. Just like before: I like handsome guy. But now: Never mind if he is handsome, what matters is HE IS A REAL GUY! Hahaha! If you know what I mean. :) 

This statement is cool: REAL MEN TREAT GIRLS RIGHT. 

Hmm.. how about the part of the guy? If the guy is treating the girl right but the problem is not him but the other party? O___o sounds complicated. Expectations and reality coordinates well. Will gonna make a post about that later on. :) 

Have a great day lovely people! :) 

Friday, July 15, 2011

Say Yes More Often

I remember the movie Yes Man by Jim Carrey, saying "yes" may open an opportunity and changes to your life. That was a very good movie. :) Alright, enough so here's my post today for you people. ♥


Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.
Complacency is detrimental to life and marriage, but with each passing year comes an ever - increasing opportunity to climb into a rut. We nestle ourselves into a comfortable routine and refuse to budge without putting up a fight. 

Refuse to trudge methodically through another day with nothing of note to mark the passing of time. Set those fuddy duddy ways aside and throw caution to the wind. Choose something daring for the two of you. Then talk it up to your spouse until they catch the vision. Behave unpredictably. Above all else, resist the temptation to conform to the mundane. Love one another :)  

Say yes to life and a more exciting marriage.

Seize the Day!
Just say YES!

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

After the Break Up

What will you do if you will received a message (text, private message or an email?) from the person you broke up with? 

On the other hand, let's say you broke up one month ago? and you are not doing well, and you want to ask how about her or him? Can you dare yourself to send the "how are you?" message with "I miss you a lot"? 

Oh no! Whatever you received a message or sends someone a message the important is that the person still value whatever you guys had before and starting all over again as friends is not bad. 

Still up to you if you will reply to the message because you are curious what's he or she's up to.

If you will going to ask me, I will reply to the message, will just gonna answer what is being asked (sounds bitter?) but the important is I replied. Right? Spread the love to everyone. :)

About sending a message to someone, its harmless so, I will send a message and its up to that person if he will reply. Right? 

How about you? :)

Have a great day!

Thursday, July 7, 2011

Love is Never Ugly

Love is never ugly. TRUE. Because even if we hate someone because we are mad or we just had an arguement with that someone. We can say "I hate you!" but we never really meant it 101% because If you really love the person, you will still forgive the person. We say things that we didn't mean because we were just mad. You will feel this kind of feeling when you truly love the person. Because the thing is that you really, really, hate that person but you can't never say that you don't love the person. Just live life to the fullest!

Have a great day! ♥

Tuesday, July 5, 2011


Funny how falling feels like flying for a little while. Falling in love for the first time?
And it's hurt so much when you are heart broken because you fall so hard from flying for a while. 
How are you? What is your plan this weekend? 

Have a great day!

Wednesday, June 29, 2011

Just A Kiss

I am so inlove with this song right now and this is my LSS! Can't help but to memorize this song and to sing like her haha!

Sorry for this short post. I am busy doing "other" things right now. Thank you people for visiting always on my page :) Hope you will leave some comments or follow my page because I do follow back. :) Feel free to post some love love comments...

Have a good day! Kisses! :) 

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

Plan For Time Apart

The best thinking has been done in solitude. The worst has been done in turmoil.
Regardless of the close relationship you share with your mate, there are times when you both need time alone. Human beings need personal space from time to time in order to grow and thrive. Solitude is necessary to secure peace of mind.
Set aside some time each week to process deep thoughts and to let your mind and imagination soar. Look at it as a private retreat to refresh your patched soul. If all else fails, lock yourself in the bathroom and soak in the tub for a while. Reconnect with your inner self. Urge your spouse to do the same. Those brief, quiet moments will do you both a world of good. 


Have a lovely day everyone! ♥

Thursday, June 16, 2011

USA Online Casino

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Know the Legal requirements that can have an affect on clients

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Playing at an internet-based casino

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Beyond just the regular computer software choices, wherein the system gives the specific card or alternatively shoots the dice cubes, additionally there are today live dealer web sites showing up using the world wide web. In these you can watch, plus talk with the casino dealer, and furthermore enjoy communicating with remaining players that you join with. It doesn't matter if you are taking part in software program or alternatively have fun with playing within a live gaming room, make no mistake – you’re able to anticipate casino odds that are the same and maybe even superior in comparison with any traditional gambling house.

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Song - Everything

The lyrics is so refreshing. This song is goes out to the girl who just ran away and he want to find the girl where. So sweet, making a song, created a music video and posted this on you tube. But in the end of the video is kinda "spoiler" hahaha! Watch it and you'll know why. Don't forget, to do it as a first option. :) Everything is on web now. ;) We have to live, laugh and love!

Have a great day! :) ♥

Monday, June 13, 2011

We Look For Love

Hello people! :) It's been a while since my last post about relationship. Well, as a blogger I also have other things to do in my life. :) I also miss my page. :) Hope you enjoy my posts recently as part of other issues in life. :) And I hope you enjoy the gif above, I found this on my favorite website. I love the message its like a short film. :) 

Love lots! :)

Kim ♥

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

The Vow Trailer

The movie that I look forward to next year. Love is a form of amnesia because girl can forget there are millions of guys out there. But this one is not just an "amnesia" this is the between two newly wed couple that had an accident and the girl have an amnesia and doesn't remember anything about them two. Awww... from the director of the Notebook. Here comes the another heart breaking movie that I'm looking forward to watch next year, February 2012.

Alright, because the story is interesting I want to know what the guy did to win her back again. Channing Tatum is hot and its already given :) ayeee! I love to see him on screen since he started Step Up movies. :)

Enjoy the trailer! :) Awww ♥♥♥

Have a lovely day everyone!

Monday, June 6, 2011

Online Casino Bonus

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Monday, May 30, 2011

What Hurts Most

When breaking up and see him again with someone... all you can do is to smile and laugh a little with a little pinch of pain in your heart. Ouch...

This song is perfect for that kind of difficult situation. So yeah... maybe this could be your LSS. Perfect.

Have a lovely day everyone! :) 

Friday, May 27, 2011

When Breaking Up

Why is it people didn't realized the worth of a person that loved them so much until it's gone? Why is it we have to lose someone we love so much before we realized that they are special to us? I guess, because we didn't think we would ever lose it. Like what's on the photo above is soooo true. 

How are you people? Hope you're all doing good. :) Happy Weekend. ♥

Thursday, May 19, 2011

The Sweetest Marriage Proposal

Awww.. the sweetest ever!

Kilig much! :) <3

Have a Lovely Day!

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

You Don't Think of Me

Just found this while browsing my favorite site. Read... :)

I know you don't think of me.
And you certainly would never picture us together, but probably peanut butter was just peanut butter before someone ever thought of pairing it up with jelly.
And there was salt, but it started to taste better when there was pepper. And what's the point of butter without bread? Anyway, by myself. I'm nothing special.
But with you, I think I could be and that's we call love :)

Cutteee... :) I find this sweet and cute. How about you? :)

Break Up Lines and What It Means

Famous Break up lines can't help but give them a (true) meaning. :\

Have a great day! 

Monday, May 2, 2011

Celebrate Your Differences

I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvelous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well. Psalm 139:14 KIV

God knew what He was doing when He made the first human prototypes. He made us male and female -- different by decision and design. Our strengths and weaknesses dovetail through a divinely inspired plan. This is especially true in a strong marriage relationship.

When you are tempted to scratch your head in dismay and mumble, "Why does my mate act that way?" realize that God created the two of you to complement each other. Your differences add strength and uniqueness to your marriage. Capitalize on the opportunity to prove that the whole really is greater than the sum of its parts. 


Friday, April 22, 2011

Every Relationship Goes Through Stages

My friend, shares this video to me and I was so amazed because this really happens in every relationships. (but still depends on) Want to share this video to you from Wong Fu Productions. This is familiar to me because I also blogged AJ Rafael MV "When We Say" before and it was also amazing. 

Every relationship goes through stages. Where and how each stage develops is ultimately up to each person. While we always hope for the best, we often can't avoid the inevitable.

Josh and Marissa are at a crossroads and their future is uncertain. Josh guides us through each stage of the relationship as it formed and as he predicts it will end up as. That's how love works :)

Written and Directed by Philip Wang
Produced with Wesley Chan and Ted Fu
Assistant Producer: Christine Chen
Production Assistant: Regina Fang

Awww... Thumbs up for this :)

Friday, April 1, 2011

Give Your Answering Machine A Workout

So much they talk'd so very little said.

Home phone. Work phone. Cell phone. Some people can be reached anywhere at any time. Though it may be convenient, it can also become a time-wasting interruption and a source of stress.

Getting caller ID to screen unwanted calls is a small step toward independence. then let your answering machine do its job on a more regular basis. Don't answer the phone during dinner or "family times." Use e-mail. At work, schedule a morning or two a week where it's common knowledge that others should "leave a message." Schedule time to return calls in the afternoon when your energy is not as high. Don't ignore those who call; just fit them into a more appropriate time slot. 

To Pick Up or Not to Pick Up, That is the Question.

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Do You Believe in Summer Flings?

Do you believe in summer flings?

Do you ever had one? :)

Friday, March 11, 2011

Cook To Please

One cannot think well, love well, sleep well, if one has not dine well.

Express your love in edible ways by taking time to prepare your spouse's favorite foods. Cooking a great meal of special treats is a powerful reminder to your mate that you are thinking loving thoughts. Even if you have no culinary skill, you can brew the morning's first pot of coffee. 

Plan time out of your busy schedule to prepare one of your spouse's favorite foods. Don't wait for the next special occasion. Add fresh meaning to the term "comfort food." If you don't happen to be a great cook, get creative. There are many ways to put a delicious meal on the table. 


Friday, February 25, 2011

Give A Special Gift - - Just To Say, "I Love You."

"Let him that desires to see others happy make baste to give while his gift can be enjoyed, and remember that every moment of delay take away something from the value of his benefaction."
 Be on the lookout wherever you go for fun trinkets and small gifts for your spouse. The presents need not to be expensive purchases or time-consuming projects. Think in terms of items that will make your loved one smile. It can be something as simple as a magazine that you picked up while in the checkout line at the grocery store. 

Focus your extravagance on the presentation -- not the gift. Prepare some heartfelt words that express your deep sentiments. Let your spouse know your bought the gift simply as a reminder of your love. Little things can make a big difference in the life of your marriage. 


Thursday, February 17, 2011

Be Nice To Your Spouse's Co-Workers

"Do your part to live in peace in everyone, as much as possible." Romans 12:18 TLB

You know that awful grouch your spouse works with -- or for? The one who leaves your mate frustrated or irritated by the end of the day? Even if you never meet your spouse's co workers face-to-face, you can play an important role in their workplace relationships.

Don't be quick to judge or criticize. Encourage your spouse to verbalize the positive characteristics of those they work with. Suggest ways to build bridges and mend fences. It is important to express empathy for your spouse's situation but resist the urge to reinforce hurt feelings by taking on your spouse's offense. Your lived will be happier and your marriage stronger when you make a habit of encouraging each other to do the right thing. 


Friday, February 11, 2011

Happy Valentine's Day 2011

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched – they must be felt with the heart. 

Happy Valentine's Day to All! :)

Monday, February 7, 2011

Spend Your Money Wisely

"Beware of the little expenses. A small leak will sink a great ship."

A wealth of financial books abound, but the best advice regarding fiscal responsibility can be summed up in the following words:
• Don't let your outgo surpass your income.

• Save or invest 10 percent of your take-home pay.

• Before resorting to credit purchases, ask yourself if the item will outlive the debt.

• Live simple. Downsize if need be.

• Put God first with your finances. Give a tithe of 10 percent to your local church.

• Don't stretch your budget so thin that you can't assist those in need.

• Cling loosely to material thins. Instead, invest your life in that which transcends earthly wealth.


Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Oyo Boy Sotto and Kristine Hermosa Wedding Video

Awww... another sweet and cute wedding video. I posted their pre-nuptial photos last month, see here. And I am glad to see their wedding video. Aww.. I can't believe I started 2011 watching wedding videos.

It's love month! How about spread the love? :) Watch their video.

Oyo Sotto and Kristine Hermosafrom Bong Sare on Vimeo.

Love is in the Air... ♥♥♥

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Roxanne Guinoo and Elton Yap Wedding Video Jan. 2011

Awww.. just want to share their wedding video. So love it, very emotional. :)

Congrats to Roxanne and Elton. ♥ :) Credits to Jason Magbanua. :)

Monday, January 24, 2011

Cherish the Everyday Moments

"Cherish all your happy moments: they make a fine cushion for old age."

We bide out time between vacations and holidays, eager for the next special event on the calendar to roll around, when we should savor each moment of your time on Earth. the lion's share of life isn't composed of holidays and special occasions. We do most of our living in the ordinary, everyday here and now. 

In the course of a long-term marriage, there are many special events. But more than anything else, there are the ordinary days that make up your life with your else, there are the ordinary days that make up your life with your spouse. Don't wait for a special occasion to notice your spouse's smile or thank God for bringing you together.  
Enjoy each moment. ♥

"Enjoy each moment with your mate. It is God's gift to you."

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Oyo Boy Sotto and Kristine Hermosa Pre-Nuptial Photos 2011

The couple succeed in keeping their wedding private last January 12, 2011. They have 150 guests invited in their solemn ceremony.

I love their photos. Taken by Nelson Uy.

(All photos from Yahoo)

Wish them all the best! :)

Thursday, January 13, 2011

Compliment Your Spouse Often

"To say a compliment well is a high art, and a few possess it."

 Don't hold back. Let your mate hear complimentary words from your lips every day. Rather than criticism, use your words to praise and build confidence. Point out the physical attributes you find attractive. In addition, continually remind your spouse of the many reasons you are sure you married the right person. 

Toss aside any misgivings you might have about building up your spouse too much. The world outside your door can be a belittling and demoralizing place. Make your home a refuge from society's steady rips. Let your spouse know that your eyes see the wonderful things that the world may never notice. 


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