Share Chores and Do More Than You Share this Holiday Season

 

Two can accomplish more than twice as much as one.
Ecclesiastes 4:9 TLB

I so love Winnie the Pooh. He is so adorable. Awww.. Anyway, my post is not related to Winnie the Pooh. Omg! As in Christmas is near, I bet you already decorate your home with Christmas decors. How about, cleaning your whole house before Christmas day? hmmm.. Not yet done?

Christmas day so that means = visitors (family members) and if there are visitors there are household chores that you have to do. Not only this Christmas but also every day! :)

Life gets, dirty. The management of a household, no matter how big or small, entails a never-ending cycle of chores. Sit down together and draw up a list of jobs for each of you.

Some couples divvy up the workload by assigning one spouse all outdoor chores, while the other handles the work inside the house and out. Determine what works best for you.

Don't become resentful when your spouse leaves something undone. Do the task cheerfully and don't make a big deal of it. Make a conscious effort to maintain a proper heart and attitude, serving each other lovingly.

Sharing chores are tangible way to show love.

Merry Christmas Everyone! :) ♥

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Zac Efron and Vanessa Hudgens Broke Up

Zac Efron and Vanessa Hudgens have decided to end their relationship.

The couple, who met while filming in 2006 Disney TV movie "High School Musical" reportedly split for no real reason other than their relationship just "ran its course," according to a report E! Marc Malkin Online and Ken Baker.

Sources told the writers that there were "no third party involved" and that they will remain friends.

This song from High School Musical 2 is now real for the couple for almost 4 years.

I guess they have to go their own way. :)

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Encourage Giggling.

"A good laugh is sunshine in a house"

Few people actually laugh themselves to death, but many do succumb to stress-related illnesses such as heart attacks and strokes. A healthy dose of humor can make a significant contribution to your overall health and well-being, including your marriage relationship.

Science is learning what common sense has shown us all along: Laughter is wonderful medicine and an important aid to healing. It revitalizes and relieves tension. No matter what problems you face today, look for humor and share a healthy chuckle or two with your partner.

Few things are more enjoyable and memorable than laughing together.

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Maggie Wilson and Victor Consunji Pre-Nuptial Video -- HOT!

Hello people! I want to share this Pre-Nuptial video of Beauty Queen Maggie Wilson and Victor Consunji. They have a very unique pre-nuptial video EVER! :) They will get married on December 18, 2010. :) 

This is what she said on her twitter account: love it or hate it.. its MY video! :) - Maggie Wilson

There are some bad comments from the other people who already seen the video. But like what Maggie Wilson said: its HER video! :) For me, I like their video not a little sweet pa cute. Hot couple! :)

Enjoy! :)

Maggie and Victor from Jason Magbanua on Vimeo.

The song titled Glory Box by Portishead and believe me it is my LSS now! :D (not their official video)




 and this song is also the ost of the Levis commercial last year! :) 

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Plan A Romantic Getaway

A woman gave her husband a note that would read as he left the office one day.  He is going to open the glove compartment of your car and read the instructions: "Take your office parking lot and go three miles south, turn left Go 4.3 miles Turn right ......" and so on.

Her husband was overjoyed when he reached his destination mystery. The directions led him to an hotel where his wife had planned a romantic getaway.

If you wait for a convenient time to break away with your partner, that time may never come. Why not arranged your schedule to include a mini-outing this month?

"You will never find time for anything, If you want time, you must make it."

 Romance is the flame that keeps marriage exciting. :)

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Choose Your Spouse as your Best Friend

They said "love starts from a beautiful friendship" or "friends can be more than friends!" (this is only applicable for opposite sex best friends.)

An advice column in a popular women's magazine recently published a general inquiry.  A bride to ask her best friend, a man to be her "maid" of honor at her wedding. I wanted to know the proper term for a man serving in this capacity. 
A better question for this woman could have been, what hope is my marriage to survive if the man I marry is not my best friend?

Your marriage should encapsulate the ultimate of every earthly relationship. Your partner should be your best friend, his most trusted confidant, the first and last in their turn to when you need comfort, advice and love.    
Is your spouse your best friend? If not, start working on that today.

Friendship is the foundation of every good marriage.

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Deal with Your Emotional Baggage

All human beings are painful experiences that have an impact on them at some level. Can affect how decisions and relate to others, including our partners. If you experience feelings of failure, guilt, shame or anger as a result of past experiences, don't ignore them.  Is likely to intensify and will definitely affect your marriage.

It will take some courage, but if you want to be a more secure, loving person and spouse, it's vital that you work to heal broken places in your heart.  Take a look at yourself honestly.  Be willing to talk to God, his close friends, your partner, or even a professional counselor. The healthier, you are emotionally, the healthier that your marriage will be.

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NEW LOOK! MORE HEARTS! ♥

Since my bloggers friends changed or upgrade the new look of their blog. I decided to change mine too. =) Since I am blogging about relationship (that is not applicable to myself JK!), I choose the template, with hearts and I still keeping the background from shabbyblogs.com that is full of hearts. Love is in the air, Holiday season is coming. Will post entry about that love Christmas.

Thank you for following me guys, hope there's more bloggers out there to follow so I could follow you back and be friends! =)


Alright, I have to go... Hope you like my new theme (that its still color pink!) and Have a lovely day! ♥ 

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PAINFUL THINGS IN (LOVE) LIFE ♥

There are painful things when it comes to falling in love. Specially when you and your partner "just break up" status of relationship. Sometimes, if we already moved on from someone to the past and we think of those memories, it makes us feel the pain.

Here are some painful things:

• Trying to hide what you really feel.
This might be the hardest thing to do in your part but to make people happy for your moving on you have to show that you are okay but deep inside you are not.

• Reminiscing the good times.
That's the only thing that you can do. Good memories with your past lover may make you smile.

• Bringing back the feeling you've learned to forget.
When we think of it, "I got over him/her" and promised yourself to forget everything including the feelings for that person. So when you will try to bring back the feeling you have to reminisce the good times.

• Having a commitment with someone you know that would not last.
This is what you called gamble. When you will love someone you have to take a risk. Because you will never know what will happens next.

• Taking risk to fall in love "again"
Like what I've mentioned above, loving someone is a gamble. You know everything would not last except both of you decided to tie a knot.

• Right love at the wrong time.
Simple explanation with this is that two persons love each other but the problem is he have her and she have him. OUCH!

• Loving someone who loves another.
All I can say is: It's time to face the truth, he/she will never be with you. Don't let one-sided love invades you.

• Accepting that it was never meant to me.
Aawww... I hate this feeling. This is connected to what I've mention above.

• What Ifs.
All you can do is to have "day dreaming" about that person. Hoping for nothing? (someone like that) FML!

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WHEN.... ♥

► When a boy calls you hot, they look at your body.

► When a boy calls you pretty, they look at your face.

► When a boy calls you gorgeous, they looks at your clothes.

► However when they call you beautiful; They see everything. ♥♥♥

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Signs That You're FALLING IN-LOVE♥♥

When you are falling in love:
♥ You'll start listening to SLOW SONGS.

♥ You'll read his/her text messages or instant messages over and over again.

♥ While looking at him/her you can't see the other people around you. You can only see that person.

♥ You'll feel SHY whenever you're with him/her...

♥ You'll get high just by his/her smell.

♥ You can't stay mad at him/her for more than a minute or two. You actually have to try hard to stay mad.

♥ You'll do anything for him/her.

♥ You'll walk really, really slow...While you're with him/her.

♥ By listening to his/her voice you'll smile for no reason.

♥ While thinking about him/her your heart will beat faster and faster.

♥ He/She becomes all you think about, and

♥ You'll realize that you're always smiling to yourself when you think of him/her.

♥ While reading this, there was ONE PERSON on your mind the whole time.

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Stroll Through the Mall Arm in Arm With Your Spouse

As divorce and discord prevalent in many American households, perhaps it is timing for the couple happily married with a little show PDA (public display of affection). We seldom spouses express true love and affection in public healthy. Our world needs some fresh reminders that true love in marriage can and still lasts a lifetime. Take pride in the fact that you are playing the odds. Use appropriate expressions of affection for his partner wherever you go. Do not be surprised if you hear a few "ahhhs" for which you see.

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Boys Become Men When They

How will we know if the boys? Are these enough to prove that Boys are Men?

1. Follow you when you walk out
2. Call you back when you hang up
3. Hug you when you punch him
4. Kiss you when you nag
5. Watch chick-flicks with you
6. Tolerate your crying over love stories
7. Hand you remote control
8. Pass on booze night just to listen to your rantings
9. Don't flare up when you give car directions
10. Says "I'm Sorry" and tells you he needs you

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How Do You Say "I ♥ U"?

How do you say I love you to your special someone? Let based your answer in this photo:

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Love Extravagantly

“To ease another's heartache is to forget one's own.”

There is one sure way to kill love - measure. Like this lyrics: “Too much love will kill you....”

Loving someone because he thinks is right, because it is "your turn", or simply what you get is not love at all. It's manipulation.

Keep a record of any type can be annoying, but with love, can be deadly, especially to a relationship. While most love to give, the more you have, do yourself a favor and love in abundance. And be sure to include those who are not able to return. Give it a secret. Volunteer. Pamper your spouse or friend without expectations of being returned the favor. These acts of love will benefit not only you but all around you.

Remember: Don't just lend a hand; give your heart.

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♥ FACE IT ♥

I'm really into this song as of the moment. I like the lyrics and it runs into my head just like what we always says: "Last song syndrome". When We Say by A.J. Rafael. Ooooh! I love his musics. Makes me fall in love he is a male version of Taylor Swift. (=

Want to share this video: [Hope you'll like it! and bet you will]

Love and relationships are never like the movies no matter how much we want them to be. But when something beautiful ends, for whatever reason, it's most important not to be disappointed that it's over, but glad that it happened at all.

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Attend Church With Your Spouse

Let us not neglect our church meetings, as some people do, but encourage and warn each other, especially now that the day of his coming back again is drawing near. Herbrews 10:25


In joining with believers of like mind on worship, not just soul food again, their marriage will be strengthened too. These are just some of the profit that offers assistance to the church after a pair that say "I do."

Attending Church:

• Provides spiritual instruction and guidance
• Turn your thoughts to the truths of Scripture.
• Bring the light areas of your life that may be contrary to Christian doctrine.
• Develop your sensitivity and spirit of participation in the life of others.
• Provides outlets for ministry and participation in the life of others.
• Focus your attention on the majesty of God through worship and prayer.
• It empowers you and your partner through the development of personal faith in God.

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Agree to Disagree

We all live under the same sky, but not all have the same horizon.

Few issues deserve a long-running feud or a heated debate with your partner.
It's best to accept simply that they may not see things from your spouse's point of view at times and vice versa. Perhaps their differences of opinion about a center of political view point or a philosophical position. Even the most perfectly matched couple should not expect to see eye-to-eye on everything.

When the disagreement surfaces, ask yourself: Is this a case which can never agree? Could this disagreement have a significant impact on our relationship? Is it worth the conflict that our relationship would have to endure? Some battles are worth fighting. Others are not. Pick your battles carefully.

Don't make mountains out of molehills.

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Block Waiting Time on your Calendar for an Appointment with your Partner

The downside of this world is the good habits are much easier to give up that bad.

Before you can access all other appointments in your weekly schedule, book a standing date night with your partner. Schedule this time like you would any important business meeting. Free nights rarely or never appear magically. If the schedule or a bank account cannot be a weekly date, will provide a monthly commitment. If it is almost impossible to pencil in a date movie on Friday, consider a date Saturday morning breakfast at your favorite restaurant or a Sunday afternoon stroll in the park or mall.

Once you have decided by mutual agreement at the earliest convenient time and place, religiously watch this important appointment. Do not let anything or any one to squeeze this time.

This is important to relationship because continuing to date after marriage helps keep the romance alive.

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Just Say No!

"Learn how to say No" Does your mouth every time you do, while your heart is screaming no? Being assertive is sometimes viewed as insensitive, cruel or selfish. However it remains to be honest and fair. Your time and your needs are as important as any other person. This does not mean that their "borders" should prevent you ever out of your way for someone else. It just means do not let anger and frustration in trying to build up to a self that never should have been said in the first place.

Procrastination, forgetfulness, doing work halfhearted or backing out at the last minute are often just ways to say no setback. So be considerate and just say no up front. This will also prevent you to get someone disappointed by saying "yes" but deep inside it's a "no."

Say no, so you can say yes to things that are most important to you.

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For Beginners: How To Play Online Casino Games

If you are a beginner and want to play online casino games, online sites are best for you. Most of these sites allow you to play online games without any interference as players and fans that you can take your time and learn the various techniques and aspects of the game and you can have fun while playing with all different players around the world.

Watch the video below if you how to play casino games online.

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Develop A Sense of Humor

Having a sense of humor is one of the qualities that a girl or a boy looking for their special someone. Of course! How can you have these happy times together if you can't ride on your partner's humor or funny jokes. I'm not saying to be come funny all the times or you are in a serious situation, it should be in a proper way to deliver your sense of humor.

A good sense of humor is a huge source of happiness when shared with your partner. Launching ideas on the comedy in this crazy life can foster a lively atmosphere that will bring the power in your marriage.

If a good sense of humor does not come naturally to you, there are ways to cultivate one. Train yourself to be observant during conversations. You may find that someone says something that causes a memory or a funny pun. Observe the people who have a good sense of humor and see how stand humor in everyday life and conversation. The important thing is to make a place of honor for the laughter shared with your partner.

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What I Do During Free Time - Poker!

"P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face (mum mum mum mah)... " that's what I'm singing when I'm playing Poker online. Poker Face by Lady Gaga. (laughs) There are many online games right now, there is this application in a social networking site that is Poker. Since I'm not really into logging in social networking sites, I download the software, so I can play poker. It's really addictive because I feel like I'm inside the Casino and dealing with other big fish with their big amount laid on the table. Every time I won, I wish it was real money but of course I also have to bet with real money. So far, I'm enjoying to play poker online, will let you know if I will bet with real money. I'm also looking for other online casino games to play to. Have a happy free time everyone! ☺

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Talk, Listen, Talk, Listen and Talk, Listen...

When talking about is only repeating what you already know, but if you listen you can learn something. In a relationship, it is important to listen to each other. What will raise your self esteem to know that the only person in this world that truly value most is interested in your thoughts, opinions and feelings. The give and take of communication is the food
that cause a marriage to thrive and grow. Never assume that you know what your partner thinks or feeling. Care enough to devote their full attention. Listen to what is said. Do not just nod and mentally to make your next response.



Few compliments than the tribute of his keen interest. For best results, try to put your partner first. Reverse the order of this bit of advice for you listening, then talk, listen, talk, listen, talk...

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Saying "I'm Sorry"

"Sorry" seems to be the hardest word. Why is that so? When you are in a relationship, saying "I'm sorry" is significant. It's like a super glue of life that can repair just about anything by saying those two words.

Saying "I'm sorry" sincerely or sincere apology is not a sign of weakness. On the contrary, the recognition that you are at fault will strengthen her marriage and your spouse's admiration for you. Do not let pride and stubbornness stand in the way of sincere apology when you are wrong. We all need absolution sometimes. When times come, the strength of your marriage will rest in their willingness to make things right with her six little words: "I was wrong. Please forgive me."

Remember that admitting a mistake and apologizing for it is the quickest way to cool a hot situation.

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Would you date your best friend's ex?

Oh no! If I will be asked by this question. I will definitely answer "NO!" However, most of the answer in my question is "it depends on the situation!"

There are two girls and they are best friends. Jenny is very popular in their campus and has many suitors while her best friends Carol is simple and just an ordinary girl. Jenny gets new boyfriends just like changing her clothes in a snap. Until such time, when Carol found out that her crush Mike courted her best friend Jenny. Carol advised Jenny not to hurt Mike's feelings. Then like what Jenny did to her past boyfriends, after a week, she broke up with Mike without any reasons. She just want it. Carol feel sorry about Mike, she confronted her best friend Jenny about it. "You don't have a right to hurt someone's feelings!" she said angrily. Jenny was shocked with how she reacted with her broke up with Mike "Why Carol? You have feelings for him? Then go! He's yours now. You don't have a right to dictate what I want to do!" then she walked out.

That was the last time they speak to each other. Mike is depressed and he needs someone to talk to. He went to Carol to talk about anything just to forget what Jenny did to him. When they became friends and Jenny found out, she confronted her ex best friend Carol "You know what Carol? He is just using you just to make me jealous. I still love him, can you please stay away from him because I want him back." Carol cried when she was told that "she was just using to make her jealous." She stay away from Mike and he She stay away from Mike, and he have no idea what's going on. When Mike confronted him "What's the problem?"
"Jenny told me that you are using me to make her jealous. I thought you want to friends with me, but I'm wrong!" Carol cried.
"No! that's not true! She's lying because she envy you. In fact, I'm falling for you. Please do not stay away from me... please?" Mike said. When she found out that Jenny was making up stories about him and they are now girlfriend and boyfriend.
[names were changed]

If your in Carol's situation. Would you date your best friend's ex? For me, "yes" because they just been in a one week relationship and I would also like Jenny to realized that she has to cherish everything that she have. We can be friends again [Jenny] but it takes time to come back our friendship.

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I knew the relationship was over when he/she________

Can you complete the sentence? Yeah I know, experiencing heart breaks really sucks. Believe me, it's like you are abandoned and you can't walk away from that person so easy.

• "I knew the relationship was over when he said I need space." This is pretty easy to figure out whether you are a man. Girls do not get this one, and always confuses kids who do not. So first, a crash course in understanding guys.

• "I knew the relationship was over when she said you deserved someone else." What's up with this? If someone will say this to you, I'm sure he/she did something that will make you freak out if you will found out.

• "I knew the relationship was over when he will not say I love you to me." Well, that's sad. Saying I love you to our bf/gf is important. You have to tell to that person how you feel about her/him just make sure you really mean it.

• "I knew the relationship was over when she said It's not you, it's me." Here we go! When you will hear this break up line, she/he means "cool-off" which is the pre-break up situation that you have to do. And if things get better or you realized you love the person then you will go back together, but if not, the "cool-off" situation you has will continue to the next level which is "break up."

• "I knew the relationship was over when he will starts the break-up." Oh! That hurts! We used to be courted us girls, by boys and then it's not good to experience the guy will ask you for a break up. This is not normal. However nowadays, everything can be turn into possible. I mean, girls can court a guy, girls can do the first move and now the guys will starts the break up. Even though, guys should always respect the girl. If guys really want to do this break up thing, he should say it in a proper way. However I'm sure girls will not understand you. Unless, the both of you will agree of breaking up and go on your separate ways.

Well, that sucks! You started with happy moments and will ended in a sad moment.

I know, there are many break up lines out there. However believe me, those are already old school lines. If you will do the break-up make sure you have the right reasons, so that she/he will understand.

Sigh.

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What Will You Do, if the Guy or a Girl is interested with you?

How do you handle a situation if you know that someone is interested with you? What is your first move?

If it someone is looking at you and always smiling with you, we can't assumed that the person is interested with us. We don't want us to call as “conceited”. Maybe that person is just wants to be friendly with you and just love to smile to everyone. But you just know that the person is interested with you. OMG!

Your First Reaction will be...

You're in canteen and someone is smiling from you two tables away and looking at you like you did something bad to him or her. This makes you “irritate”. Then you will walk out of the canteen and ignore him or her. This will makes you think that person is a retard because she or he is still keeps on smiling at you with no reasons. Okay, maybe there is a reason and this reason is “you complete his or her day because he or she saw you”?! Ugh! A bit corny but funny.

Smile Back

The next day, your saw your admirer again, then smiled at you. At this point, you will also smile back to your admirer and see what will be his or her reaction to that. Let's all admit that we also like it when someone is interested with us because it will bring rainbow color to our love life. Maybe the next day he or she will say “hello” to you. You know that person likes you, so you have to be nice.

Get to Know

“I will, approach the girl and I will ask her name and maybe we could be friends!” Jericho, 18

Getting the name of that person is the first move you'll have to do and maybe that person just wants to be friends with you that is why she or he always smiling at you. Like i said earlier that don't be conceited when it comes to the stuff like this maybe in the end you are wrong in what you are thinking.

“Being friends with him or her is the way that you will know if you are compatible with each other.” Clariza, 19

If you have similarities when it comes to likes and dislikes this will get you along well with each other and you might get started to like that person too and have chance to bring your relationship to the next level. In reverse, if you're not compatible may be you are just ended up with being friends.

Don't want to hurt the feelings...

“I will not reject him if he wants to be friends with me because it will hurt his feelings and if I'm in his place, I will also get hurt If he will say “no””. Catherine, 18

They said that love started with being friends. Like what in the Prom Night, if someone is inviting you to have a dance with him, it is a pleasure always to accept the invite.

In different ways

“I will ask for her mobile number and be textmates with her and have fun!” Aki, 17

“Excuse me boss, you got one new message” your cellular phone ring tone beeps. Which you will prefer, being friends with her in personal or you are contented to be her textmate? Of course, I know you will choose both. If you like someone, you are not contented to be with her or him during the break also every night you never forget to send sweet quotes or message before you go to sleep or have a exchanging text message or go online to have a chat.

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Do You sit across from or next to your bf / gf in a restaurant booth?

If you go out with your partner and eat out, I usually sit across of my partner so that there will be a balance in table. However it depends on the situation. Sometimes, If we go out on a group date, I sit next to my partner. What's yours? ☺

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What Heart-Break Songs You Listen To?

If you are in pain right now, because you just broke up with your partner. It takes, time to move on and let go. If we are in this stage of our lives which is being a heart broken. We play songs that can we say how we feels.

If I had a theme song.. It would be...

• Over You by Chris Daughtry

My favorite lyrics in this song is the first stanza "Now that it's all said and done, I can't believe that you're the one who build me up and tear me down..Like an old abandoned house" and "I guess it's really over, I finally getting better..." wow, how does sounds to you? You really think that you are 100% better and forgot the worst nightmare that you had. The lyrics are great!

• Over It by Katherine McPhee

The lyrics of this song describing each part of the body of that person that you already "got over." "Your eyes, (I'm over it), your smile (I'm Over It), I realized (I'm over it, I'm over it....)

• Better in Time by Leona Lewis

Like what I said, moving on takes time and we all hopes for the time to come to feel better. You can relate to this song. • From the Bottom of my Broken Heart by Britney Spears Yep, It's Britney Spears song. This is a dramatic song that suits for young adults who experienced heart breaks at the very young age.

• Seven Days of Lonely by inine

One of my favorite songs. When we broke up with our partner, we still call them and ask them if he/she is okay or how's he or she doing. It's because you used to be with him everyday, this song suit you. The lyrics "I pretending okay, but it aches inside.." we all do pretend that we are okay with us but the truth no. We asked God for help to make us strong. "God I wish you could hold me, to the seven days of lonely..."

• You Made Me Stronger by Regine Velasquez

Really good song because for those who accept the break up and have a sweet revenge to their partner. Instead of showing the weakness side, you will show your stronger side that makes your partner realized what he or she had lost.


• Someday by Nina

The Soul Siren Nina, I love her songs and she has good lyrics that make my heart beat so fast. "Someday, someone's gonna love me, the way I wanted you to be me.." "Someday, I forget about you, you'll see I won't even miss you" Ugh! Wondering when will be that "Someday.."We'll see.


Songs today were great! The lyrics, the tone, and it is easy to remember that's the important part of composing a song that makes us sing wherever, or whatever we feel sad or hear broken.

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Describe the perfect girlfriend or boyfriend

What a beautiful day to start with! The clouds are there, the sun shine brightly, you feel the breeze of the wind and you hope to meet your next girlfriend or boyfriend. We all want to have a perfect partner to be with. However, does Perfect partner really exist?! Well, in our dreams yes but in reality, NO! If you're familiar with Manga [Japanese comics] Absolute Boyfriend, I'm surely you will love it. Since its free to dream and to think of what we want to think of, how would you describe a perfect girlfriend or boyfriend? A Perfect Partners Should Be

♥ Caring. That will be there beside you taking care of you when you are sick.

♥ Thoughtful. At least send you a message twice a day to say "Hi" and "How are you" before the day ends.

♥ Sensitive. Cares about your feelings about something or everything your partner will do.

♥ Supportive. Giving moral supports in everything your partner do or what career she or he has.

♥ Sweet. Being sweet to the point that your heart will melts.

♥ Proud of You. When he or she is looking from a far with his/her friends your partner will tell his/her friends that "she's/he's the one I love..." so cheesy...

♥ Holding Hands While Walking. It's either the boy or girl will first hold the hand of their partner. It's sweet that you will walk around in Malls holding hands.

♥ Will ask you what do you want to eat.

♥ Say I love you, if your partner will say I hate you.

♥ Kiss your partner good night.♥♥

♥ Makes you smile when you're sad.

♥ Comforts and hug your when you are down.

And there are many characteristics and personality that we describe a Perfect partner. Post yours. ☺

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To Master It

Some of my friends told me that I'm “strong” because I'm numb to any pain. Actually, it's my special technique, what they don't know that I had to break my heart a million times just to master it.
In a class of NCM, the professor asked “what is pain?” One of the student's answered “first love”. There are different types of pain that a person's feel. It could be a back ache, headache, toothache or etc. but all those pains can be treating by a doctor or dentist or even a mefenamic acid or paracetamol. How about the heartache? I mean, pain that’s aching inside because we are broken hearted.



What triggers the pain? -Memories

We do sometimes remember the things that the person did to us. It could be in good or it could be in bad. Like you remember the way he or she cheers you up or the last time that you saw her or him with someone else. Ouch! That hurts! However whatever it is... we still have to live in our lives. They are part of our life and thanks to them that you made yourself stronger.




What can heal pain? -Time

It may take several months or half of the year or a year to heal our heart from being broken and bring it back into a whole. You have to be focus on what's coming ahead or in the future if you will not move on then what will happen to you? Or you'll move on with your life, there will be a great and excitement in each day you wake up. Thought's like what will happen today?




What lengthens pain? - Martyrdom

Let's all admit that we are martyrs or we were once. It is because we really in love with that person and we can't leave them even though that we're fully loaded in pain. Sigh! I guess that was really loved, it makes you blind.


What is the initial sign of pain? -Tears

There is nothing wrong about crying, instead it is good to let go the pain that what you feel inside. However you know what, sometimes we are crying because of self-pity not because we're crying for her or him.


What is the defense mechanism of pain? -Denial

Oopss... Don't deny it that you've been hurt when she or he was broke up with you.


What is the primary stressor of pain? Theme Song

I have this friend; we were having our gimmick when the song that reminds of her ex boyfriend played. She can't help crying because she told us that song is what her ex used to sing for her. Obviously that she haven't move on.


How can you remove pain? Let go

Here we go again; this is just the only way to not feel the pain. If you're thinking that you can't live a day without him, well, you should change your point of view. Don't let your life ruin by just one person, think of a sweet revenge. Prove that you are worth keeping so that she or he will regret.


How can you forget the pain? Move on

After you've let go, this is the time to move on with your life. At first, you don't want to see the face of that person again but as time goes by, your path cross unexpectedly, you can face him with a happy face and a smile. I’m sure he’ll/she’ll be happy.

What is the history of the pain? Break up

This means that you're not for each other. Even though that you really in love with each other but mostly you're having a misunderstanding. It's really hurt that you have to let going of that person. If ever you have a friend that's just broke up with a partner, don't tell him or her that “I know what you feel” coz the truth is that we really don’t know.

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How will you know if your partners have a third party?

Guys can do pretend and they can't easily be caught in the act but girls do have sharp instincts and likewise.
Here are some symptoms that your partner does have another partner:

• S/he always sick – is the reason why your partner doesn't want to meet you the pain such as toothache, headache, back pain, stomachache, until your partner will say that s/he going to have an operation

Oh-oh! invalid reasons! that you can medicate with just a paracetamol or mefenamic acid tablet, but what can we do if your partner doesn't want to see you because s/he has an appointment with someone.


• S/he always sleeps early that your partner not usually does. S/he will send you a text message with “gud nyt, [goodnight] mwah!” Then s/he is on the way to gimmick instead.

That is why there is a network that you two can subscribe that offers unlimited text and unlimited calls (you know what I mean). It is better to call you partner every night to check if he or she is really in their house and not in the gimmick. However, if you trust your partner, well, you will just let him/her do want your partner wants. If s/he will inform you that s/he will go out for a gimmick; h/she will tell you that he was low battery; mobile's phone has no signal and the most thing that your partner will tell you that her or him cell phone was snatched. Hahayyy.... It is important that you know who's with your partner. You have to get the number of his or her friends so that if that he/she will tell you that s/he's low battery and has no signal, you can contact your partner's friends and see if he's /she's lying to you or not.

• Your partner will call you and ask where you at, not because s/he's misses you it is because s/he is afraid that you may be accidentally meet in a place with someone.

If this will happen, your partner will tell you that he/she is in their home, you can check that with the help of your mother's or dad's partner. However, if they will tell you that your partner is not at home, well.... Don't be so martyr go to check where your partner at is and who's with him/her.

• Your partners always have a text mate and exchanging message with his/her mom... hmmm.... Is it really his/her mom?!
Cell phones and E-mail - This is personal stuff that you can't touch without the permission of the owner. Nevertheless in a relationship, the cell phone is open to each other, to prevent the doubts, you will tell your partner that “you can check my phone if you want” if this is what your partner will going to tell you, go to check his/her phone. Let see if your partner will be conscious. These are the five symptoms that your partner has another girlfriend or boyfriend. Remember that this is just symptoms so you be aware if that you think that your partner is giving you a cold shoulder.

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